Summer’s the perfect time to turn up the heat and get a little steamy – literally. If you’ve ever found shower sex more slippery than satisfying, don’t fret: the best shower sex position is the key to making it both hot and hassle-free.

While shower sex is a top fantasy for many couples and may even be your only private time (thanks to little ones, vacations, or family staying with you), it can easily turn into a coordination challenge. The elements that make it sound dreamy – the flowing water, steamy atmosphere, and slick skin – also make it risky without the right prep.

That is… till now. We’ve done the legwork (and the leg lifts) to uncover the best shower sex position ideas and tips for maximum pleasure without the hazards. Keep reading for the ultimate guide to safe, sexy, and fun shower play.

Soapy, Not Slippery: Safety First During Shower Sex

Before we get to the best shower sex position ideas, let’s cover a few essentials. Prepping may not seem super sexy, but trust us, it’s key to avoiding chaos and ensuring a smooth, fun experience. Planning ahead will save you, plus your wallet, from painful mishaps (hard pass on the awkward ER visits) and make shower sex something you'll want to enjoy regularly.

Follow these must-do tips to avoid slips and bruises during shower sex:

• Clear the clutter: Make sure shampoo bottles, razors, and anything that could crash your groove (literally) are out of the way – no unexpected surprises mid-action. 
• Lay down a non-slip mat for grip: Because slipping mid-thrust is nobody’s fantasy.
• Add grab bars or use sturdy walls to steady yourselves: Think of them as your sexy-time sidekicks.
• Skip the slippery stuff: Soaps, oils, and suds might smell amazing, but save the bubbles for bath time. Focus on pleasure, not cleansing. No falls around here, please.
• Invest in a shower bench or footrest: Extra support and versatility equals more positions with less wobble. Hallelujah!

Charge up the fun: If you’re bringing toys into the mix, make sure they’re fully charged and waterproof – because nothing kills the vibe (pun intended) like a dead battery in the heat of the moment. 

Set the Scene For Shower Sex

Now that your shower’s all cleaned up and primed for playtime, it’s time to set the rest of the scene for romance and pleasure. This isn’t your average rinse-and-repeat – we’re going for full-on steamy and inviting. Set the mood to turn your shower sesh into the perfect backdrop for trying out the best shower sex position (or two). 

Here are some ways you can bring your ultimate shower sex fantasy to life:

• Mood Lighting: Set the tone with waterproof candles or a dimmer switch for your bathroom light to create a sultry, glowing atmosphere.
• Aromatherapy: Enhance the atmosphere by diffusing essential oils in your bathroom to stimulate the senses. Lavender, sandalwood, and vanilla are perfect for a calming and romantic vibe.
• Temperature Check: Aim for warm water, not scalding, and keep the steam level in check for maximum comfort and enjoyment. No fainting or passing out here!
• Music: A waterproof speaker is a must. Play your own curated tunes or use our sexy music playlist to keep things slow and intimate.

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Keep the mood alive with fluffy towels and a cozy robe waiting post-rinse. Or, if you're feeling extra spicy, have a sexy and classy lingerie set on hand to slip into and continue the fun in the bedroom.

Lube Is Still Your Friend During Shower Sex

FYI, if you didn’t know – water can actually wash away natural lubrication. It may seem counterintuitive since water is a liquid and should help things slide more smoothly (which it does for skin-to-skin contact), but it doesn’t have the same effect down there. So, if you’re planning to try the best shower sex position and take things all the way during your steamy shower session with your partner, don’t skip the lube. 

Here’s what to keep in mind when choosing lube for shower play:

• Avoid oil-based lubes: They can break down and make surfaces slippery, which might lead to accidents. No thanks!
• Opt for silicone-based lube: It stays put in the shower, unlike water or oil-based options. For the best experience, apply it to both of you before stepping into the shower to avoid any spills or slippery floors. And don’t worry – silicone requires soap and water to wash off, so it will stay in place throughout all the fun. We love this one from the clean-ingredient and adorably packaged brand, Hello Cake. 
• Consider water-based lube for easy cleanup: If you’re not a fan of silicone, water-based lubes are a good alternative. They may not last as long in the shower, but they’re easy to clean off and won’t leave a residue on your skin. We recommend Coconu, our absolute fave and high-quality brand that we can't get enough of.

Best Shower Sex Position Possible

Now, let’s talk positions. What works for one couple might not work for another, so the best shower sex position is the one where both of you feel safe, sexy, and satisfied. Consider height differences, shower size, detachable shower heads, toys, and the type of play you want – whether it’s foreplay or a full finish session. A little trial and error can lead to big rewards.

Ready to explore? Here are some of the best shower sex positions that couples swear by – playful, practical, and perfect for getting wet and wild:

1. Standing Face-to-Face: Nothing beats the heat of locking eyes and kissing passionately under running water. Works with slight height differences, or you can use a shower bench for extra leverage. Note: grab bars or each other make great handles – for safety and spice. 
2. Behind-the-Scenes: One partner leans forward, using hands on the wall or a ledge for support, while the other enters from behind. This deep, dominant position brings max control and intensity with a whole lot of steam.
3. Shower Seat Magic: Break out the waterproof bench or stool. One partner sits while the other straddles for a slower, more controlled rhythm. Bonus points for being toy-friendly and less leg fatigue.
4. Foot-Up Fun: A standing classic – one partner lifts a leg onto a sturdy footrest or ledge for perfect angled access and a closer connection. Just make sure it’s stable and stays put. 
5. Lap Dance Vibes: One partner sits (or perches) while the other faces away and rocks back and forth. Think lap dance, but wetter. This one keeps things playful, stable, and works great in larger stalls or tubs with seating. 
6. Hips Don't Lie Hold: Both partners face the same way, with one entering from behind while holding onto the hips. This position is great for hand play or a toy tease, also. It’s cozy and sensual, especially in smaller showers where space is tight and movement is limited.

 MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Wanna make it hotter? Add a toy to any of these positions (for you, your partner, or both) to boost the pleasure and make sure everyone’s having a blast. And if you need more ideas, grab our Mentionables positions card deck with 52 spicy moves.

The Real Talk About Shower Sex

Despite what’s shown in movies, shower sex isn’t always as graceful as it looks on-screen – and that’s okay. Sex is messy, full of surprises, awkward noises, unexpected reactions, and lots of testing things out. Now throw in water, steam, limited space, and hard, slick surfaces, and you've got yourself a whole new level of adventure. But that’s also what makes it fun – the challenge invites creativity, curiosity, and a whole lot of laughs on the way to discovering your best shower sex position.

To keep expectations in check (and spirits high), here are a few shower sex truths to remember:

• Laughter is sexy: Embrace the giggles, the bumps, and the occasional “oops!”
• Consent and communication are non-negotiable: Check in with your partner before and during the action.
• Practice makes steamy: It might not be flawless the first go-around, but don’t let that stop you. Try different positions, explore toys or props, and keep playing until you find the best shower sex position for your body and vibe.

Clean Up and Cuddle Up After Shower Sex

After finding your best shower sex position and soaking in all that blissful goodness, it’s time to dry off and decide what’s next. Whether you're winding down or taking the fun to a new location, just because the water’s off doesn’t mean the heat has to be.

Here’s how to cap things off (or gear up for round two):

• Rinse it off right: If you used lube or toys, take a few extra moments to rinse thoroughly with warm water and mild soap to keep things feeling fresh and irritation-free.
• Moisturize and slip into something soft: Gently pat dry, treat your skin to some nourishing lotion, and maybe you both could slip into something silky or lacy. Mentionables lingerie has just what you need to keep the spicy energy going long after the water has stopped.
• Keep the fire alive: Who says the shower always has to steal the spotlight? You could think of it as the warm-up act, because the real encore might be waiting under the bedsheets.

Ready to Get Steamy? Let the Shower Sex Games Begin!

Shower sex doesn’t have to be a soapy slip-and-slide. With the best shower sex position for you, a little prep, and a splash of confidence, it can be just as safe and sexy as you imagined. Once you towel off, slip into something lacy or silky from Mentionables, because nothing says “I’m still thinking about you” like a post-shower surprise.  

Ready to turn up the heat? Shop our charming, gorgeously detailed romantic summer lingerie collection to make waves beyond the bathroom.

Now spill – what’s your steamiest (or funniest) shower confession, or the best shower sex position you’ve tried? We won’t judge – we’re all friends in the splash zone.