Hello, gorgeous! It’s a new year – time to leave doubts behind and step into 2025 with confidence. Whether your resolution is self-love, rediscovering femininity, or treating yourself, classy lingerie is the perfect place to start. 

We get it, though – lingerie can feel intimidating with sizing worries and that nagging inner critic; it’s no wonder that so many of us get knots in our stomachs when thinking about wearing it. 

Here’s the truth: when you find the right lingerie pieces, it’s a total game-changer. Tasteful, well-fitting lingerie can be a key piece of the puzzle in discovering how to feel confident in your body, no matter your size or shape. 

Keep reading for Mentionables' best advice on how to feel confident in your body, with the help of lingerie. Let this year be all about embracing your beauty and showing your body the love it truly deserves.

The Power of Lingerie For Boosting Confidence

Lingerie might not be the first thing that comes to mind for boosting self-esteem, but trust us: it’s a powerful tool you don’t want to overlook. The right lingerie piece can have you standing taller, smiling brighter, and strutting with the bombshell energy you already possess. Whether petite or plus-size, classy lingerie (especially Mentionables’ ravishing plus-size lingerie options) empowers and celebrates you. 

Confidence looks good on everyone, and lingerie is a great way to remind yourself of that. For a quick pick-me-up, try wearing your lingerie:

• Under your favorite outfit for an added boost of confidence.
• During your self-care routine to unwind.
• Just because.

PROTIP: Remember, lingerie isn’t just for someone else’s eyes – it’s for you first. It’s an essential part of learning how to feel confident in your body. When you feel empowered, you’re unstoppable (and that’s the real magic of lingerie).

Confidence is a Mindset (But Lingerie Helps!)

Now that you know lingerie, including plus-size lingerie, is incredibly influential for building self-belief, let’s focus on how to use it to help you feel confident in your body. 

First, a mindset shift might be in order. Negative self-talk and insecurities can hold you back from embracing your body, so it’s time to flip the script. Remember: your body doesn’t need to look a certain way to be amazing – it’s already incredible because of all it does!

Here are some strategies to help reframe your self-image and silence the nitpicking noise in your mind:

• Focus on your best features, especially during intimacy (think hair, eyes, or anything you love about yourself).
• Use body-positive affirmations like “I am beautiful, radiant, and vibrant” or “I love my femininity and suppleness.”
• Wear lingerie just for yourself – even under everyday clothes, or take intimate photos just for you to appreciate.
• Ask your partner to gently remind you of your beauty if you start being critical.

PROTIP: Confidence isn’t about size – it’s about owning your vibe and appreciating what your body does. For more expert guidance on how to feel confident in your body, follow our favorite body-positive gurus Lexi and Lindsay Kite from Beauty Redefined on Instagram. We especially recommend listening to this inspiring speech from Dr. Lexi Kite.

Tips to Choose Confidence-Boosting Lingerie

Lingerie plays a key role in how to feel confident in your body, and with the right style, fabric, or cut, it can perfectly complement your unique shape and make you feel amazing. It might take a little experimentation, but don’t worry – we’ve got some tips to help you discover the perfect fit and style that’s sure to make both your partner and you pause and admire your reflection.

Find Your Correct Lingerie Size

Knowing your correct lingerie size is essential – it’s the foundation for staying comfortable and unlocking how to feel confident in your body. Ill-fitting pieces, like panties that dig in or bra straps that slip, can be distracting and uncomfortable.

Here’s how to get your lingerie size right:

1. Measure yourself at home with a soft tape measure (don’t stress, it’s easier than you think). For bras, measure around the fullest part of your bust and just below it. To determine your panty size, measure around the fullest part of your hips.
2. Compare your measurements to sizing guides and fit notes on lingerie sites, like Mentionables’ inclusive sizing chart with plus-size options (XS-3X).
3. Look for adjustable straps and stretch-friendly fabrics to ensure a comfy and tailored fit, especially for those who appreciate extra flexibility in their lingerie.

Dress For Your Unique Lingerie Shape

Now that you’ve nailed your measurements, it’s time to select lingerie that complements your figure. Understanding the right styles that flatter your unique body type is crucial for feeling your absolute sexiest.

Here’s a quick guide for choosing lingerie based on your body shape:

• Rectangular shape: a straighter figure with minimal curves. Create the illusion of a fuller figure with corsets, garter belts, and plunging necklines. Strappy high-waist panties or thongs can help contour your lower half.
• Inverted Triangle shape: body shapes with larger proportions on top than bottom. Emphasize your waist with corsets, teddies, or waist-tie babydolls. Underwire bras, and halter necklines give needed support to your girls, while cheeky lace panties showcase your backside.
• Hourglass shape: a well-defined waist with balanced proportions between the bust and hips. Highlight your waist with corsets, garter belts, or structured bodysuits, and pair with high-cut panties to elongate your legs.
• Apple shape: a fuller midsection. To achieve more symmetry, choose babydolls with an empire waist for definition, elongating teddies, and low-cut slips to enhance your cleavage. High-waist panties are a great choice for supporting and defining the midsection.
• Pear shape: a narrower top and fuller hips and bottom. Opt for lacy babydolls or bustiers to accentuate your bust while gently skimming over your bottom half. Vintage-inspired high-waisted panties with a hipster leg cut are perfect for flattering your hips and bum.

PROTIP: Keep in mind that these are just guidelines – you’re not restricted to them. If you adore a certain style, even if it’s not typically recommended for your body shape but makes you feel like a supermodel, go ahead and rock it. When it comes to the question of “how to feel confident in your body,” we have one thing to say: it’s all about accepting your best self-perception. 

Go for Comfort And Sexy Lingerie

Why choose between comfort and sexy when you can have the best of both? Striking that perfect balance in lingerie is an essential part of how to feel confident in your body. Imagine slipping into a soft bralette or a lace chemise that not only feels like a cloud against your skin but also adds a little sultry magic to your lingerie look. Sounds great, right?

Here’s what to focus on to achieve that sexy, comfortable lingerie bliss:

• Breathable, buttery soft fabrics like silk, lace, or mesh – because who says you can’t feel luxe while staying cozy? 
• Adjustable straps, and stretchy, supportive designs that ensure a customized fit for every size.  

Embrace a versatile color palette – whether you’re exuding goddess vibes in sleek, inky black, embracing romance with soft blush tones, or making a statement in bold jewel shades, pick lingerie hues that make you feel like a knockout.

Fun Add-Ons to Elevate Your Confidence Game

Want to take your lingerie game up a notch? Mixing in fun little intimate extras can really make all the difference in how to feel confident in your body. But these accessories aren’t just for show – they can skyrocket your self-assurance, too.

Consider these delightful additions to complement your lingerie:

• A silky robe that can make you feel like a glamorous movie star. 
• Lacy thigh-high stockings that hug your legs in the most flattering way.
• Playful add-ons like garters or edible pasties to turn up the sexy factor. 
• A strappy harness top, bottom, or set to layer over your lingerie or, if you're feeling daring, rock it solo for a bold statement.

So go ahead, add a little bonus flair – you deserve it.

Celebrate You Every Day: Discover Your Perfect Lingerie Piece

As we dive into this year of confidence, remember that you’re already amazing – lingerie is just the cherry on top. 

If you’re looking to treat yourself (or your partner), why not start with Mentionables' V-Day collection? From seductive lace to playful styles, we've got everything to make you feel like a million bucks. Ready to celebrate you? We promise, there’s the perfect piece waiting for you! Shop our V-Day collection now and let the celebrations begin.

Tell us – what other tips do you have for how to feel confident in your body? Share your advice below!