Ever notice how the right song can instantly shift your mood? Whether it’s an upbeat jam that gets you dancing or a soulful ballad that tugs at your heartstrings, music has a way of setting the tone. So why not use sexy music to spark a little extra passion? A sexy music playlist isn’t just background noise; it’s the ultimate mood-setter that can level up your intimacy game and help you “get there” mentally.

Whether you're gearing up for a romantic date night (hint: Valentine’s Day is around the corner) or looking for a steamy soundtrack to accompany your bedroom adventures, a well-curated playlist is your secret weapon. Bonus? It can even help your mind transition from work mode to “let’s get it on” mode.

While putting together your own playlist can be part of the fun, we know life gets busy – so we’ve done the hard work for you. Our exclusive Mentionables Sexy Time playlist is packed with sultry, smooth tracks that are sure to get you both a little hot and bothered (in the best way).

Just press play, let the rhythm take over, and see where the beat leads… Curious what’s on our playlist? Keep reading to see our top tracks and discover how a sexy music playlist can spice things up, both in and out of the bedroom.

So, What Songs Made the Cut On Mentionables Sexy Music Playlist?

It was tough to narrow it down, but here’s a peek at our top 10 sexy music playlist songs:

1. “Dangerous Woman” by Ariana Grande.
2. “Hands to Myself” by Selena Gomez.
3. “Let’s Get It On” by Marvin Gaye.
4. “Chains” by Nick Jonas.
5. “Bed Chem” by Sabrina Carpenter
6. “Earned It” by The Weeknd
7. “Dress” by Taylor Swift
8. “River” by Bishop Briggs
9. “PILLOWTALK” by ZAYN
10. “Versace on the Floor” by Bruno Mars

To see the rest of our favorite sexy music picks, check out the Mentionables “Sexy Time” playlist here. 

Now, let’s uncover why sexy music is such a powerful vibe creator and how it can be your backstage pass to getting in the mood effortlessly.

Prepping for Desire: Using A Sexy Music Playlist Can Set the Mood During the Day

Did you know music can release feel-good chemicals like serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin? Studies show that different types of music – especially a sexy music playlist – can influence your emotions and activate pleasure centers in the brain. Consider it science-backed foreplay!

Likewise, many women experience more responsive sexual desire (as opposed to spontaneous) and often need external triggers, like sexy music, to ignite that sexual spark. So why not let your favorite suggestive tunes help ease you into a more erotic mindset throughout the day?

If keeping up with your partner’s libido feels like a challenge or sex rarely even crosses your mind amidst your packed schedule and endless to-do list, here are a few ways sexy time music can help shift you into the mood:

• Play music while getting ready for date night or doing mundane tasks (like folding laundry or making dinner).
• Create a personal "confidence-boosting" playlist with tracks that make you feel sexy and empowered, ideal for setting the mood while you work up a sweat during exercise (which, of course, also helps get those sexy vibes going).
• Pair a playlist with a bubble bath or self-care routine to move into relaxation.

Sexy Music Playlist Vibes: Include slower, playful tracks that build up the anticipation (e.g., “Million Dollar Baby” by Tommy Richman or “Love On The Brain” by Rihanna).

Date Night Magic: Turning Dinner Into a Prelude With a Sexy Music Playlist

Date nights are the perfect opportunity to lead into sexy play. Start by connecting emotionally through meaningful conversation (if you need conversation starters, check out our blog post here or try our Let’s Reconnect cards) or by trying a fun, new activity that adds a bit of novelty and naturally flows into more private moments afterward. To really boost your chemistry and enhance those sizzling feelings, try adding a sultry soundtrack to the mix. 

A sexy music playlist playing softly in the background – whether on the drive to and from your date, during an at-home evening, or as a post-date transition – can transform a casual evening into an infinitely more intimate affair. 

Our Mentionables sexy music playlist is ideal for date night, but if you want to create your own, here are our top tips on how to put together an amazing compilation:

• Start with light jazz, soulful R&B, or acoustic covers to set a romantic, tension-building atmosphere. We love the mix of choices on this list. 
• Gradually shift to sexier, more suggestive songs as the night progresses. Create an extended playlist that moves from flirty and fun to bold and direct, matching the flow of your evening.
• Pick songs that hold special meaning for both of you to bring back joyful memories. Since music is deeply tied to memory, incorporating nostalgic tunes can reignite happy and passionate moments from the past.

Example Transition: Start with a Norah Jones tune like “Turn Me On”. Then move to Maroon 5’s “Animals”, and end with The Weeknd’s “Earned It”.

During the Main Event: Play a Sexy Music Playlist to Match the Rhythm

Now that you’ve set the stage with a meaningful date night or ignited that sexual energy within, it’s time to stop teasing and get down to “business”. Sexy music creates a sensual rhythm, sets the pace, and keeps you both in sync. It tells a story, guiding you through your intimate experience. 

This is exactly why we created our Mentionables Sexy Time music playlist, packed with our favorite dynamic sexy songs. But if you want a customized collection for getting busy, keep these tips in mind to enhance your “up close and personal” time together: 

• Build the sexy music playlist together as part of the fun – it can even double as foreplay.
• Choose songs that fit your desired mood: slow, intimate, bold, or passionate.
• Experiment with themed playlists for variety (e.g., tropical beats for vacation vibes or throwback R&B for nostalgia).
• Start with slower songs for foreplay and build toward more upbeat tracks.
• Avoid songs with distracting lyrics or abrupt tempo changes.
• Update your sexy music regularly with new tracks to keep things fresh and fun.

Example Tracks: When revving up the tension, include scintillating hits like “Senorita” by Camilla Cabello and Shawn Mendes or “Positions” by Ariana Grande.

A Sexy Music Playlist for Post-Sex Bliss

It might seem like a sexy music playlist is only needed for the main event but don’t underestimate its power afterward. Trust us – don’t skip making the most of this time. 

The right music can enhance intimacy, deepen relaxation, and keep the connection lingering long after the big moment has passed. In fact, the “afterglow” phase plays a pivotal role in bonding and overall satisfaction for couples (but especially women) – so let the music keep the mood alive.

Here’s what to consider when curating your post-intimacy sexy music playlist:

• Opt for calming instrumentals, mellow indie tunes, or soft acoustic tracks to maintain the intimate attachment.
• Choose songs that flow seamlessly into one another, enhancing that dreamy, post-love haze.
• The goal? A soothing soundtrack perfect for cuddling, unwinding, and basking in the “love glow” together.

Example Tunes: Consider adding to your “afterglow” soundtrack songs like “Gravity” by John Mayer, and “At Your Best (You Are Love)” by Aaliyah. We think this playlist absolutely nails the afterglow vibes.

Tech and Tools for a Sexy Music Playlist in the Bedroom

For the best experience with your sexy music playlist, make sure your tech and gear are set up in advance. Nothing kills the mood quicker than connection issues, the wrong song, or the volume being too loud. A well-prepared tech setup ensures the sexy music flows seamlessly, creating an immersive atmosphere that enhances your intimate moments.

For the ultimate experience, consider adding these tech essentials to your collection:

• Portable Bluetooth speakers that provide crisp, rich sound, filling the room with the perfect vibe.
• Smart home devices like Alexa or Google Home provide hands-free control, allowing you to adjust the playlist or volume without breaking the mood.
• Curated sexy music playlists – like our exclusive Mentionables playlist on Spotify or Apple Music – let you press play and fully immerse yourself in the moment together.

With the right tech, a sexy music playlist for your bedroom experience is totally at your command.

Beyond the Bedroom and Sexy Music Playlist

A sexy music playlist isn’t just for between the sheets – it can work its magic in plenty of other ways too. 

Try turning up the heat by playing sensual tunes:

• On a romantic road trip.
• While cooking dinner together.
• As a surprise addition to a steamy shower or bath for two.
• To spark an impromptu slow dance.

Make Every Moment Hotter with the Perfect Playlist And Lingerie

From setting the mood to deepening your connection, sexy music is a powerful tool to amplify your intimate moments. Whether you're creating a sexy soundtrack for your daily routine, heating up your date night, or extending the afterglow, the right sexy music playlist can make all the difference. 

Ready to dive in? Start with our "Sexy Music Time" playlist, perfectly crafted to help you turn up the heat, and see where things lead. And don’t forget to pair those sultry beats with some equally tantalizing Mentionables lingerie for the full sensual experience. 

What tracks would you add to your sexy music playlist? Share your favorites with us below!