When life turns into a routine blur of diaper changes, calendars full of events, carpools, and the relentless work grind, intimacy often ends up on the back burner. Time for a reset! A couple's vacation isn’t just about sightseeing or sipping indulgent drinks – it’s a chance to rekindle the romance, focus on each other, and relish in incredible sex on vacation. That’s why the term “sexcation” exists, after all.

That said: sex on vacation doesn’t have to be the goal. Sometimes, escaping away with your partner can be just about relaxing and reconnecting in ways that don’t involve the bedroom, and that’s perfectly okay, too.

But if the mood strikes, a getaway just for the two of you can elevate your intimacy to new heights and bring back that sexy spark. Whether you’re lounging on a sun-drenched beach or snuggling up in a mountain cabin, sex on vacation can be the ultimate bonding experience for you and your partner. 

So pack your sunscreen, a sense of adventure, and your sexiest Mentionables lingerie – things are about to get super steamy.

Sex on Vacation: Pack for Pleasure

If you want to pencil in some sexy playtime to your R & R weekend plans, make sure to pack with pleasure in mind – alongside your swimsuits and sunglasses. Make a list of all your “must-have” intimate essentials to ensure sex on vacation is a smooth experience.

Here are some basics you might want to toss into your suitcase:

• Travel-Friendly Toys: Small, discreet toys can bring a fun and exciting element to your vacation. Opt for a compact bullet vibrator or a pair of remote-controlled vibrating panties to liven up a dinner date or any other moment on your trip.  
• Lube Singles: If you’re flying to your destination, don’t forget TSA’s liquid restrictions – individual lube singles are a great travel-friendly option to avoid any issues at security. 
• Bedroom Towel: To avoid needing a second set of sheets or an awkward call to housekeeping, bring a special “bedroom towel” to use as a protective barrier.
• Mentionables Lingerie Favorites: Debut a stunning Mentionables lingerie piece for the occasion, inspired by your location – think a breezy robe for the beach or a strappy number for a charming city getaway. (Bonus points for something that’s easy to slip in and out of). Don’t forget to pack your “mentionables” in a mesh bag for protection while traveling. Visit our lingerie care guide post here for more expert packing and storing tips.
• UTI Prevention and Relief: If you're prone to UTIs, especially after sex, make sure to include cranberry supplements in your packing list for prophylactic treatment and AZO to help relieve any painful symptoms.

PROTIP: If you’re bringing along any “toys,” remember to remove the batteries or fully drain the charge to prevent any unexpected (and potentially awkward) noises from your luggage.

Sex on Vacation: Set the Scene

A couple's vacation is your chance to escape the usual routine and rediscover both your connection and your playful, sensual side. Leave “mom mode” or “boss babe” behind by transforming your hotel room or Airbnb into a romantic retreat; unpack a few mood-setting essentials and let the relaxation (and passion) begin.

Once you arrive at your lodging, use these tips below to create the perfect ambiance for a dreamy getaway and the ideal atmosphere for passionate sex on vacation:

• Create the Romantic Vibe: Scatter a few battery-operated tea lights (safety first) around the room and transform your space into an enchanting, heady oasis.
• Cue the Music: Pull up a sultry playlist on your phone to help you both transition into a sexy mind frame. Check out this blog post for some inspiration to create your own unique sensual soundtrack.

Engage All Your Senses: We’ve touched on sight and sound – now let’s bring in scent. Try packing a TSA-approved fragrant room spray that complements your surroundings, and fully transports you to a place of leisure and sensuality.

Sex on Vacation: Break the Routine, Break the Rules 

Vacations are for letting loose, so why not get adventurous? 

Getting away from it all often brings less stress and more moments to have new experiences, both of which can work wonders for your libido. Use this opportunity to bring along items or try new things you've been wanting to explore, but haven't had the time or occasion to do before. With more privacy, extra free time, and fewer distractions, your vacation is the perfect excuse to finally use those intimate wishlist items and bring fantasies to life.

Break free from your routine and spark creativity and spontaneity with these sex-on-vacation ideas:

• Steamy Spots: Try making love somewhere unconventional (just keep it legal, lovebirds). A private pool or a secluded balcony can make for some intimate core memories.
• Intimacy Anytime: Leave your watches at home – impulsive midday romps or late-night sexy adventures can be incredibly exciting and have you swooning for each other all over again.
• Experiment With New Things: Try new fabrics in lingerie for you or him, add a daring accessory that you’ve never used before, use feathers during foreplay, explore temperature play with ice, or mix things up with whipped cream or chocolate sauce (in all the right places).
• Turn Shower Time Into Playtime: Combine cleaning up with heating things up! If your lodging features a spacious walk-in shower or a luxurious rainfall showerhead, make the most of it and enjoy some wet and wild fun together.

PROTIP: Pack our Mentionables non-graphic positions card game to explore fresh positions, or visit our blog for exciting new sex moves to try. For added fun, consider our Truth or Dare game or bedroom dice to bring playful competition into your sex on vacation.

Sex on Vacation: Roleplay and Reconnect

What better opportunity to embrace a new persona than while you’re away from home? Step into a fun character or bring your sexiest fantasy to life, turning your sex on vacation into unforgettable memories.

Play around with some of these suggestions to help get you started: 

• Roleplay Rendezvous: Pretend you’re strangers meeting for the first time in a hotel or recreate your honeymoon vibes with an over-the-top romantic dinner. You could also spice things up by dressing as a favorite character with a suggestive twist.  
• Make Fantasies Come Alive: Ever wanted to kiss in the rain, make love in front of a roaring fireplace, or share a romantic bubble bath in a giant jetted bathtub? Use this dedicated time together to make your wildest dreams a reality.  
• Unplug to Plug In: Use the change of scenery to fully disconnect from work and social media, allowing you to focus solely on each other. May we also suggest packing our Let’s Reconnect cards to spark heartfelt conversations and deepen your emotional connection even more.  

PROTIP: Need more steamy story prompts and character outfit inspiration to elevate your sex-on-vacation experience? Don’t miss our roleplay blog post here.

Sex on Vacation: The Afterglow Plan

Vacations may be brief, but the bond you rekindle can last long after you’ve unpacked. Maximize this precious time to reconnect and keep the flame burning by trying one or two of these ideas when you're back home:

• Souvenir Sparks: Bring home a small keepsake or a special fragrance that reminds you of your getaway together.
• Keep the Momentum Going: Plan a “staycation” date night to recreate those carefree vacation vibes.

PROTIP: Set realistic expectations for sex on vacation to avoid disappointment. Travel fatigue, adventurous eating, or a sunburn after a long beach day can sometimes interfere. Be flexible, enjoy the moment, and let intimacy happen naturally – no set number of times needed.

Sex on Vacation: When A Getaway Isn’t An Option

If a vacation isn't in the cards due to finances, childcare challenges, or life circumstances, you can still reignite the spark at home and create your own version of sex on vacation. Plan a special day or night of relaxation and reconnection with your partner by using any of the ideas mentioned above. These suggestions can be just as romantic and rejuvenating to your relationship, even in the comfort of your own space.

Vacation, Mentionables Style

Whether you’re jetting off to a tropical paradise or road-tripping to a cozy cabin, Mentionables is here to help you turn up the heat and make your sex on vacation extraordinary. 

From barely-there teddies, and crotchless pieces, to comfy yet tantalizing lace bralettes, our classy lingerie is designed to make you feel confident, sexy, and completely in the moment. Don’t miss our exclusive, limited-edition V-Day lingerie collection that’s perfect for a sexy weekend rendevous or playing hooky.

Ready to pack your bags and your favorite Mentionables lingerie? Let the adventures (and your sex on vacation) begin!

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