Last summer, we shared a playful roundup of summer intimacy ideas for couples – and since warm-weather romance deserves a sequel, we’re back with even more sex bucket list ideas to try this year. (If you missed the first list, definitely start there for even more inspiration.)

This updated 2026 summer sex bucket list is filled with playful, low-pressure ways to reconnect as a couple during the sun-kissed season. Think skinny dipping at night, making out like teenagers again (bonus points for summer rain), booking a hotel in your own city, and swapping pajamas for lingerie all week long. 

Whether you’re planning a romantic vacation or just trying to make ordinary summer nights feel more exciting, these sex bucket list ideas are designed to help couples flirt more, laugh more, bring back the fun, and create lasting memories together.

8 Summer Sex Bucket List Ideas to Try Together

If you’ve used any of our seasonal sex bucket list ideas, you already know how powerful small, intentional changes can be for reconnecting as a couple. 

This updated list takes that same idea a step further, offering even more playful, summer-inspired ways to bring novelty to your routine. Think less explanation, more real-life inspiration you can actually try together. 

Now let’s get to the goods!

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #1. Go Skinny Dipping Together at Night

Yep, we’re kicking off our summer sex bucket list ideas with one of the most iconic summer couple activities out there. From The Summer I Turned Pretty to People We Meet On Vacation, to every other flirty beach rom-com ever made, skinny dipping has a reputation for being playful, spontaneous, and just a little bit rebellious for a reason. 

Of course, the key to keeping it fun is making sure you feel comfortable and relaxed, too. 

Here’s how you can keep your “au naturale” moment discreet and stress-free:

• Pick a private spot with zero interruptions
• Go at night for natural privacy and a more romantic feel
• Have towels or cover-ups ready for an easy exit
• Do a quick check for neighbors, cameras, or sightlines

To make it even more romantic, bring a soft playlist, light candles, keep drinks nearby, or turn it into a simple summer-night date.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Gingham and Lace Romper in Blue –  a flirty one-piece made for summer nights where less clothing (and more fun) is kind of the whole point.

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #2: Use Tropical Foods In Foreplay Fun

You guys loved our Foods To Use During Sex blog post last summer, so we’re bringing it back with a tropical-inspired upgrade for the year’s summer sex bucket list ideas. Think lush exotic fruit, vacation energy, sweet flavors, and the kind of playful foreplay that feels straight out of a steamy beach getaway.

These tropical fruits are a fun place to start, with the pineapple technique leading the way as a fan favorite for a reason: 

• Pineapple
• Mango 
• Dragonfruit 
• Papaya 
• Coconut 

The real fun is in the sensory experience – sweet flavors, chilled textures, and the thrill of trying something new together. Keep it light, fun, and flirty rather than overthinking it. 

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Lacy Underwire Padded Bralette and matching Lacy Corset Back Crotchless Panty in Hot Pink – because if things are going to get a little juicy, your lingerie look should be, too. 

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #3: Skip Pajamas for a Week

Hot summer nights and full pajama sets? Yeah, not exactly the vibe. This summer sex bucket list idea is your excuse to trade oversized sleep shirts for something a little softer, flirtier, or maybe nothing at all. 

 Here are a few easy ways to try it out this week: 

• Start with soft basics like lightweight lingerie or loungewear
• Go completely bare if it feels comfortable
• Choose breathable bedding, such as cotton or microfiber

Think of it as a shared experiment in keeping things interesting. A few nights of doing things differently can naturally add a little spark and bring you closer without even trying too hard. 

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Scalloped Embroidered Satin Cami Top and matching Satin Shorts in Rose Pink – the perfect in-between set for upgrading your nightwear while still feeling light, free, and barely there.

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #4: Make Out Like Teenagers Again

Remember when making out was the main event? This summer sex bucket list idea is all about bringing back that butterflies-in-your-stomach, can’t-stop-kissing kind of chemistry that every good rom-com thrives on. For more ideas, check out our Makeout Tips post.

Here’s how to invite that sizzling tension back into the everyday: 

• Slow things down and stay present in the moment
• Remove distractions so you can focus on each other
• Bring back light, playful touch throughout the day
• Shift your environment or timing to change the mood
• Lean into nostalgia and let things unfold naturally

 And, if you happen to time your makeout sesh during a summer rainstorm, even better (hello, The Notebook scene). These small, cinematic moments are what make this idea feel extra special. 

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Polka Dot Mesh Babydoll in Black – flowy, feminine, and just cheeky enough to turn a simple kiss into something that lingers a little longer.

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #5: Make a Sexy Summer Playlist Together

Every great summer romance needs an equally great soundtrack (looking at you, Mamma Mia). Whether it’s slow songs for late-night drives, vacation throwbacks, or tracks that instantly set the mood, building a sexy playlist together might be one of the easiest summer sex bucket list ideas to sneak into everyday life. 

So, what songs belong on your sexy summer playlist? Try these:

• Date night favorites
• Road trip or summer classics
• Nostalgic hits from your teenage years
• Songs tied to shared experiences together (like vacations, dating, special occasions)

Over time, it becomes less of a sexy playlist and more of your summer soundtrack – something that brings you back into the moment instantly.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Gingham and Lace Skirted Crotchless Teddy in Peach – made for twirling around the room, stealing kisses, and turning up the heat. 

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #6: Try a “One New Thing” Night

This idea isn’t about doing anything extreme – just trying one small thing that feels new for both of you. Some of the best summer sex bucket list ideas simply add a little curiosity, surprise, or anticipation into the mix without feeling overwhelming. 

Some “new” ideas could include:

• A new position (our position card deck game makes this super easy)
• Using massage oils
• Longer foreplay
• Trying a different location in the house
• Taking turns planning the night

You can keep it simple by using a yes/no/maybe list or an app like Ultimate Intimacy for inspiration. 

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Lacy V-Plunge Teddy in Hot Pink – bright, daring, and made for nights where trying something new is part of the fun. 

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #7: Be A Tourist In Your Own City

Turns out, you don’t actually need plane tickets to pull off one of the most fun summer sex bucket list ideas. Playing tourist in your own city is an easy way to shake up routine and pretend that you’re the hot couple in a summer movie montage. 

Spice up your “staycation” with these tips:

• Dress up like you’re on vacation
• Explore local restaurants or new neighborhoods
• Flirt more intentionally throughout the day
• Treat it like a mini getaway, even if it’s just for one night

Want to spice it up even more? Pull a Claire and Phil on Modern-Family move and pretend you’re strangers flirting for the first time again. Tease each other at dinner, compliment each other more, and lean into the “vacation version” of yourselves for the night. 

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Lacy Off the Shoulder Bralette and Lacy High Waist Crotchless Panty in Black – equal parts classy, sleek, and ready for the after-hours portion of your staycation. 

Summer Sex Bucket List Idea #8: Go to a Drive-In Movie or Outdoor Concert 

There’s just something about summer nights, live music, drive-in movies, and sneaking kisses under string lights that feels ridiculously romantic. This last one of our sex bucket list ideas leans fully into that nostalgic, youthful summer vibe in the best way possible. 

Here’s how to take this classic pastime and make it even more fun – and a little sexier:

• Put phones away or on silent so you can focus on each other and the show
• Dress up a little more than usual to make it feel like a real occasion
• Bring a small treat or drinks to share during the show
• Stay physically close – hold hands, cuddle, and sneak some kisses
• Take a slow walk afterward so the night doesn’t end too quickly

And if you’re looking to heighten the experience even more, try wearing something lacy underneath your outfit. It adds a subtle, private layer of confidence that can make the whole night feel a lot more exciting than it lets on. 

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing:Gingham Underwire Balconette Bralette and Gingham and Eyelet Ruffle Thong in Peach – soft, summery, and discreet enough that it keeps things comfortable while you’re out making memories.

What Makes a Good Sex Bucket List?

Q: Should a sex bucket list be extreme?

A: No. The best sex bucket list ideas are usually the ones that make couples feel closer, more playful, and more intentional together.

Q: How do you make intimacy feel exciting again?

A: Trying new experiences together, changing routines, prioritizing flirting, and creating uninterrupted quality time can all help intimacy feel fresh again.

Q: What are easy sex bucket list ideas for married couples?

A: Staycations, lingerie nights, playlist-making, outdoor dates, sleeping naked, and trying one new thing together are all fun, simple ideas for long-term couples.

What Makes Summer the Perfect Time to Reconnect? 

Summer always seems to bring out the playful side of relationships – the late nights, spontaneous plans, flirty vacations, and little moments that somehow turn into your favorite memories together. And honestly, the best sex bucket list ideas usually aren’t about doing the wildest things possible. They’re about breaking routine, having fun together, and making intimacy feel exciting again.

If you’re ready to lean into your hottest summer yet and check off all your summer sex bucket list ideas in style, explore Mentionables’ new tropical-inspired summer lingerie. This collection is filled with vibrant colors, vacation-ready sets, silky pieces, and confidence-boosting styles perfect for every date night, staycation, and spontaneous summer moment ahead.

So, what’s a fun or flirty thing on your summer sex bucket list ideas this year? Spill the tea below!