Remember when a good makeout sesh was the main event – the kind that left your lips tingling and your heart racing? Somewhere between busy schedules and Netflix marathons, we forget just how thrilling a slow, lingering kiss can be. This is your sign to bring it back. 

In this guide, we’re serving up playful makeout tips to help you kiss like you mean it – whether that means stealing smooches in the kitchen, getting lost in each other on the couch, indulging in a spontaneous, heated moment in the car, or channeling Parisian passion à la Café Noir. 

So pucker up, slow down, and let every kiss feel like the first all over again.

Why Kissing Still Matters (Yes, Even After Years Together)

Once you’ve been together for a while, kissing can sometimes take a back seat to other “bases” – but kissing is often where the best love stories begin. Think back to your dating days and the electric anticipation of that first kiss. 

The rush. The butterflies. The way it made your whole body hum with excitement. 

As time goes on, it’s easy to let those slow, sensual makeouts disappear.

But here’s the truth: kissing still matters, and with the right makeout tips, it might just be the secret ingredient to keeping your connection fresh and fiery. In fact, our favorite sex therapist, Vanessa Marin, says kissing is “super important for intimacy, foreplay, and attraction in general.”

So, why is a good kiss so much more than just lip service? Here’s the scoop:

• The science of a kiss: When you lock lips, dopamine and oxytocin flood your brain, sparking a potent blend of pleasure, bonding, trust, and emotional connection. Research from 2020 reveals that how often couples kiss plays a big role in how satisfied and connected they feel in their relationship.
• Built-in anticipation: A slow, passionate makeout session can ignite more desire than rushing straight to the “grand finale,” making every touch feel more electric and stretching out the pleasure and anticipation for what’s to come.
• The romance of “just because”: Sometimes the best kisses happen with no agenda at all. Kissing simply for the joy of it keeps the flame alive and reminds you both why you fell in love in the first place.
• The perfect opener: Kissing is often used to initiate deeper intimacy, so if it’s already on the menu, why not master the art and do it like a pro? After all, a great kiss can set the tone for everything that follows. 

Ready to up your kissing game? Let’s dive into our top makeout tips that’ll help you perfect your technique in no time.

Makeout Tips: Channel Your Inner Parisian

When people think of French kissing, they often picture an intense, tongue-filled exchange with fireworks flying everywhere. But the truth is, “kissing like the French” is more about attitude than technique. It’s about taking your time, soaking in every second, and setting the kind of mood that makes each kiss feel like it belongs in a timeless, cinematic love scene (like The Notebook’s unforgettable kiss in the rain).  

If you want to bring that Parisian flair to your next makeout session, these makeout tips will help you set the mood and get into an irresistible rhythm:

• It’s all about the vibe: Think moody lighting, rich scents, and whispered secrets – like you’re tucked away in a cozy corner booth at Café Noir.
• Channel cinematic charm: Small gestures make a big impact – run your fingers through their hair, hold lingering gazes, cup their face or neck as you kiss, and let your touch say what words can’t.
• Attitude over technique: Confidence and presence turn a simple kiss into something you both won’t soon forget. Be fully in the moment, and let your passion lead the way.

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Don’t rush the approach – let your lips hover for a heartbeat before meeting theirs. That split second of suspense? That’s where the magic (and the goosebumps) happens. Hold off on introducing tongue; when you do, keep it soft and unhurried. Begin with closed-lip kisses, ease into slightly parted lips, and let the heat build from there.

Makeout Tips: Spice It Up Without Rushing It

The hottest makeouts aren’t always the fastest or the most intense – they’re the ones that keep you on the edge of your seat (or bed). These makeout tips focus on blending anticipation with variety, turning a simple kiss into an irresistible slow burn that leaves you both wanting more. 

The trick? Make every move feel intentional, playful, and just a little unpredictable. 

Here’s how to turn up the heat without racing to the finish line:

• Master the art of the tease: Pull away just before the kiss lands to build delicious anticipation.
• Switch up your style: Alternate between soft, lingering kisses and deeper, more passionate ones to keep them guessing.
• Add extra flavor: Incorporate neck kisses, gentle trails along the jawline, or whispered words to make the moment feel intimate and electric.
• Use your hands: Hands aren’t just along for the ride – they’re MVP players. Cradle the back of their neck, tangle your fingers in their hair, loop your arms around theirs, slide under their arms, or rest on their chest. Feeling bold? A cheeky butt squeeze can send sparks flying.
• Think beyond the lips: Lips are great, but why stop there? Explore necks, trace along collarbones, nibble earlobes – basically, give the rest of them a little VIP treatment, too.
  
  

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Play with the dynamics – soften your lips for feather-light kisses, add a bit more firmness for intensity, and tease with just a hint of tongue while changing up your pace to keep things… interesting. For an extra hit of heat, lightly nibble or suck on your partner’s lower lip for a delightfully erotic touch. Just remember – always get consent and follow their lead before turning up the intensity.

Makeout Tips: Playful Make Out Prompts to Try Tonight

Think you’ve got kissing down? Maybe – but even seasoned pros can benefit from learning a few new skills. The best makeout sessions are equal parts heat, tease, exploration, and surprise, and these makeout tips are here to push all the right buttons. They’ll break you out of your routine, dial up the tension, and add to the thrill of stretching out the moment until you’re both grinning (and maybe a little breathless). 

Try these playful prompts to break out of your routine and turn kissing into its own unforgettable event: 

• The No-Talking Rule: No words, just eyes, smiles, and lips. Let body language do the talking.
• Surprise Location: Take it to the hallway, the kitchen counter, or even a parked car in the driveway.
• Set a Timer: Go for 5 minutes of uninterrupted kissing (no shortcuts, no breaks).
• Savor the Senses: Add a twist with taste (flavored lip balm), scent (candle or perfume), or sound (a mood-setting sexy playlist).

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Don’t be a makeout marathoner – pick just one of these makeout tips and milk it for all it’s worth.  Trust us, dragging it out will have you both craving more long before you’re ready to stop.

Makeout Tips: Lingerie That Says ‘Come Closer’

Want to add a secret layer of confidence and flirtation to your makeout sessions? The right lingerie can be your ultimate makeout tip – something that boosts your mood and makes you feel irresistible, even before your partner sees a single inch. Think of lingerie as your secret superpower: a personal self-confidence boost that sets the stage for sparks to fly. 

Here are some makeout tips inspired by our decadent new fall Café Noir lingerie collection to help set the mood for some serious lip action: 

• Confidence Boost: Slip into this sultry black lacy and strappy teddy to feel effortlessly bold – its intricate detailing will make you feel unstoppable, even before the clothes come off.
  
• Secret Superpower: Try the sheer lacy bralette and matching ruffle panty set in our gorgeous cherry lacquer; it’s like your own hidden invitation that amps up your flirt game from the inside out.
• Come Closer Vibes: Our satin keyhole slip in luscious Chocolate brown blends softness and seduction, perfect for those moments when you want to whisper, “Come closer.”

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: The secret to a killer makeout? Wear some lingerie that makes you feel so good, you can’t help but flirt – and your confidence will be absolutely contagious.

Makeout Tips: Keep the Butterflies Alive

Want to keep that fresh, fluttery feeling alive in your relationship? One of the best makeout tips is to make kissing a regular ritual – no pressure, no agenda, just pure connection. Expert Vanessa Marin recommends making out every night, whether or not sex is on the table, so you both learn to savor the kiss for what it really is: its own kind of magic. 

Turning everyday moments into mini passion bursts can make all the difference, especially in long-term relationships. 

Here’s how to keep the butterflies fluttering:

• Make it a Habit: Build makeout sessions into your daily routine, whether it’s before work, during naptime, or in a quiet moment together.
• Quick sparks of desire: Use everyday moments, like a movie pause or a quick hallway kiss, to spark connection and excitement.
• Be Fully Present: Leave your to-do lists, worries, and phones behind; focus completely on the moment and each other.
• Time Is the Magic: Remember, it’s not just the kiss; it’s carving out time to share that closeness without distractions.

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Compliment your partner when they kiss you just right – and don’t be shy about sharing what you love or want to try next. Open communication turns good makeouts into something truly electric.

Sealed With a Kiss

A good makeout isn’t just about lips – it’s about slowing down, savoring the moment, following each other’s lead, and letting anticipation do its magic. Whether you’re curled up on the couch, stealing a kiss in the hallway, or recreating a Parisian café rendezvous, every kiss is a chance to reignite that spark. 

Use these makeout tips to bring back the butterflies, and if you really want to set the scene, slip into something from Mentionables’ new Café Noir fall lingerie collection – moody, romantic pieces that practically whisper come closer. 

Now tell us, what’s your favorite way to turn an everyday kiss into a makeout worth remembering? Drop your best makeout tips in the comments – we’re all about swapping secrets.