Who says classy lingerie is just for the bedroom? 

At Mentionables, we believe those lacy little numbers deserve way more spotlight. Whether you’re looking to mix things up, surprise your partner, or simply feel like the absolute showstopper that you are, classy lingerie can add a delicious dose of spice to any night in. 

That’s why we’ve rounded up our top six lingerie-inspired date night ideas that go beyond the typical dinner-and-a-movie routine. From candlelit dinners where you’re the main course to sultry spa nights with a lacy twist, these ideas are all about confidence, connection, and maybe just a little mischief. 

So, slip into something sexy, light those candles, and get ready for some arousing fun.

1. Satin & Spice Dinner Night

Why not dress the part under the apron? Turn a simple dinner into something sizzling by adding a lacy lingerie surprise underneath. Extra points if your partner catches a sneak peek while you’re whipping up dinner – talk about turning up the heat in the kitchen!

Here’s what to do for a culinary night of passion:

• Set the mood: Cook (or order in) a romantic dinner while wearing your favorite lingerie, think a teddy, babydoll, or corset top beneath a silky robe.
• Dress him up too: Have your partner slip into a pair of satin boxers so you’re both dressed for the occasion.
• Make dessert unforgettable: When it’s time for sweets, surprise him by revealing what’s underneath – and we’re not talking about the cheesecake.
• Go the extra mile: Play into the fantasy and take on the role of the hot chef for the night. An apron is optional, but attitude is required.

And if you’re hungry for a little more excitement in the kitchen, we’ve got some extra-flirty ideas in this blog post to turn your cozy cooking night into a sizzling competition.

PROTIP: Don’t skip on the actual dessert – just make it a little naughtier. Think chocolate body paint, edible massage oils, or strawberries and whipped cream. Explore our favorite spicy picks for extra inspiration.

2. Boudoir Photo Shoot Night

“Lights, camera, sexy!” Transform your living room into a sultry studio with a playful DIY photo shoot. With the right lighting and a little lingerie magic, this is one date night you’ll want to frame – literally. 

Here’s how to set up a dreamy and sexy camera sesh with your partner:

• Set the Scene: Use soft lighting like candles or string lights. Use a cozy bed or a plush blanket on a chair or the floor to create the perfect backdrop.
• Dress to Impress: Slip into lingerie that makes you feel confident – a delicate lace bralette, a silky slip, or nothing but your favorite robe. Even hotter: Surprise your partner with something new from Mentionables – think matching lingerie sets for you and him. Or even try adding a theme like "Old Hollywood Glam" for extra fun.
• Play, Don’t Pose: Focus on connection and fun – candid moments and giggles are just as beautiful as posed shots. Need guidance? We’ve got some simple poses to help you get started. 
• Share the Spotlight: Take turns behind the camera or use a timer. Add sultry poses and video clips to capture all the in-between moments.
• Turn Up the Heat with Music: Set the mood with a sexy playlist. Choose songs that boost your confidence – we've got you covered with our top playlist tips. For an easy win, use our ready-made sexy music playlist.

PROTIP: Looking for more tips – especially if slipping into classy lingerie and taking pics feels a little intimidating? Head over to our boudoir photoshoot blog for a full guide packed with confidence-boosting advice and playful encouragement.

3. Lingerie Lounge & Movie Night

Ditch the sweats and slip into silk – your living room is about to become the ultimate luxe movie lounge. Sure, movie nights are a classic, but trading your comfies for something a little more enticing instantly takes things up a notch. So dim the lights, pour your favorite drinks, and press play on a romantic flick that sets the mood just right.

Here are a few extras you can add to make the night even more enjoyable:

• Blankets: Soft, fuzzy blankets to set a warm and snuggly mood. 
• Massage Oil: Have oil on hand for relaxing shoulder or neck rubs mid-movie.
• A “Clothing Optional” Policy: Because sometimes less is more.
• Upgrade your snacks with a “lovers’ board”: a flirty charcuterie spread with chocolate, juicy fruits, and rich cheeses – ideal for feeding each other and sneaking kisses between bites.

With a setup like this, don’t be shocked if the movie turns into background noise – or gets postponed altogether in favor of some, ahem, heated “intermissions.”

4. DIY Spa Night (But Make It Sexy)

Facemasks, massage oils, and lingerie? Don’t mind if we do! It's time to relax, indulge, and let the hands do the talking. As the stress melts away, the intimacy builds, creating a perfect atmosphere for connection, fun, and more.

Here’s how to create a sensual spa night that’s equal parts relaxing and romantic:

• Create the ambiance: Light a few scented candles and cue up a playlist that’s equal parts chill and sexy – we’ve got one ready for you that nails the vibe.
• Soak & Unwind: Start with a luxurious bubble bath for two. Add rose petals, bath oils, or a fizzy bath bomb to elevate the experience and ease into the night with some relaxed, skin-to-skin closeness.
• Massage & Tease: Trade slow, sensual massages using rich lotion or oils. Wearing lingerie amps up the flirtiness – choose pieces that feel amazing and leave plenty of skin exposed for hands to roam. Want something that checks both the wow factor and easy-access boxes? This stunning matching set does just that.
• Cuddle & Connect: Wrap up the evening in soft robes (or stay in your lingerie) for some cozy cuddles, low-key conversation, or wherever the night takes you next. (Spoiler: It probably won't be sleep – at least not yet.) 

5. Lingerie-Themed Role Play Date

Whether you choose to be a nurse, a French maid, or invent your own role – tonight is all about stepping into character. It's playful, exciting, and bound to ignite both your imagination and connection.

Step into a world of tantalizing fantasy and bring your wildest dreams to life with these irresistible ideas:

The Sexy Secretary & Boss: 

• What to wear: A tailored lace bralette, pencil skirt, and stockings.
• Role Play: One of you plays the dominant boss, and the other is the eager assistant. The scenario can involve office “meetings” with a lot of teasing and flirtation, followed by a little more than just paperwork.

The French Maid Fantasy

• Lingerie to Wear: A classic French maid outfit with lace apron, black stockings, and a feather duster.
• Role Play: One partner plays the maid, while the other takes on the role of the demanding homeowner. Let the maid “clean up” in more ways than one, using plenty of teasing and playful authority. 

Private Investigator & Femme Fatale

• Lingerie to Wear: A sleek black bodysuit or a vintage-style slip dress.
• Role Play: One partner takes on the role of a private investigator trying to solve the mystery of the seductive femme fatale. Play with the idea of “interrogation” that quickly turns into something more steamy.

 PROTIP: Playing dress-up isn’t just for you – have him slip into something silky, too. Satin boxers are perfect for the “shirtless chef,” the “handsome stranger,” or simply “your favorite fantasy come to life.” And for even more roleplay ideas, don’t miss our blog post packed with creative scenarios and lingerie costume inspiration.

6. Naughty Lingerie Scavenger Hunt

Who doesn’t love a surprise, especially when it leads to the best “treasure” at the end: you, in all your lingerie glory. Trust us, the wait and effort are sure to pay off when you make your grand entrance.

Here’s how to set the stage for a night full of naughty fun, teasing thrills, and the ultimate sexy prize:

• Steamy Clues: Hide lingerie pieces around your home with enticing clues for your partner to discover. Add a playful twist by incorporating physical challenges – like a sensual massage or a flirty task – to unlock the next clue and piece of lingerie.
• Spicy Trail: Each lingerie item discovered leads to the next clue, building excitement as the hunt progresses.
• The Grand Finale: The hunt ends with you, dressed in a robe, waiting for your partner to help you slip into your final lingerie surprise look.

To make this sexy scavenger hunt super easy, use these darling printables with clues and tasks already done for you from our pals at The Dating Divas.

PROTIP: Take the excitement up a notch by adding crotchless lingerie pieces as the "reward" at the end of the hunt. This is a saucy and memorable idea, perfect for a honeymoon or romantic getaway. If you need help picking the perfect crotchless lingerie, check out our blog post here.

Let the Lace Lead the Way For Date Night

Who knew a little lace could spark so much fun? Whether you're having a cozy night in or planning a steamy surprise, these lingerie-inspired date ideas bring cheeky charm and a sizzling twist to any evening, all while boosting confidence and deepening your connection.

Need a lingerie refresh? Or let’s be honest: you just want an excuse to treat yourself. Mentionables has you covered with dreamy collections, from bridal lingerie pieces to our exclusive and limited-release cobalt designs, to bring your next date night fantasy to life.

So, have you ever surprised your partner with lingerie outside the bedroom? Which of these date ideas would make them lose their mind? Let us know in the comments!