Fall bucket lists usually involve pumpkin spice lattes, apple picking, and too many leaf pics. Cute, yes – but we’re here to turn up the heat with sexy ideas and, of course, classy lingerie. 

Imagine crisp autumn air, the crackle of a bonfire, and flannels hiding something far more daring underneath. This season is made for sultry nights, lingerie reveals, moody playlists, and confidence hotter than your favorite fall candle.

So grab your PSL (or a cup of hot apple cider) and get ready to upgrade your autumn. 

If our summer sex bucket list ideas lit the spark, then our fall sex bucket list can fan the flames – eight flirty adventures await, starring Café Noir, the season’s sultriest spin on classy lingerie.

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #1: Blanket Fort & Scary Movie Marathon

Who says blanket forts are just for kids? Kick off your fall sex bucket list ideas with a cozy classic – blankets, twinkling fairy lights, and a few thrilling jump scares. Build your love nest and pick a scary movie (or two) to keep the night exciting…and a little cuddly.

Set the spooky, yet steamy vibe with:

• Soft pillows and blankets stacked for maximum snuggles.
• Twinkle lights in mason jars for a magical glow.
• Favorite scary flicks – from horror to thriller, the scarier the better.
• Seasonal snacks and drinks, such as maple or caramel popcorn, indulgent hot chocolate, or TJ’s adorable leaf-shaped chips with red pepper hummus.
  
  

Turn up the heat by stealing kisses every time someone screams, jumps, or hides behind a pillow. Or add a flirty dare for every laugh or shriek – between the popcorn and the scares, you’ll have more than enough excuses to get cozy.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing:Lacy Plunge Satin Scalloped Romper in Chocolate – comfy like pajamas but flirty enough for sizzling post-credits fun. 

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #2: Steamy Hot Tub Date

Nothing warms you up faster on a crisp autumn night than a hot tub for two.

This may be our favorite activity of all our sex bucket list ideas. A starry hot tub soak (like that unforgettable scene in To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before) washes away the stress and sets your pulses bubbling. Friendly reminder: hot tubs are meant for two – make sure nosy neighbors and wandering little eyes aren’t on the guest list.

Make your fall hot tub date dreamy with:

• Floating candles or soft lights around the tub.
• Plush towels and robes for when you get out.
• Optional sexy music playlist for a sensual background ambiance.
• Have some playful sips on hand to balance out all that hot tub heat
  
  

Crank up the chemistry with teasing splashes, whispered fantasies, or a few naughty secrets shared in the steam. Want to get really daring? Break out a round (or two) of our grown-up Truth or Dare cards for extra spicy fun.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Lacy Satin Keyhole Bralette and High Waist Lacy Satin Two-Toned Tap Shorts in Black – soft, sensual, and perfect for slipping into afterward.

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #3: Pumpkin Spice Spa Night

Make your favorite fall flavor the centerpiece of a playful massage night that leaves hearts racing. Cozy, scented, and a little indulgent – it’s a perfect fall sex bucket list idea to connect and ignite some autumnal sparks.

Turn your space into a playful pumpkin paradise with:

• Warm pumpkin spice massage oil (DIY or store-bought).
• Dim lights or fall scented candles for a soft, intimate glow.
• A cozy playlist to keep things sultry.
• Massage tools or soft brushes for added tactile fun.
• A bedroom towel underneath to keep things mess-free.
  
  

Take turns teasing each other with slow, deliberate strokes, playful touches, kisses, and compliments. Keep the suspense alive: Roll Mentionables’ bedroom dice and let fate (and fun) choose the next teasing touch.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Satin and Eyelash Lace Slip in Chocolate – adding spice to the season’s sweetest scent.

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #4: After-Dark Costume Party

From sultry witches to cheeky cowgirls, dressing up adds a playful, adventurous twist to an ordinary night. This sex bucket list idea is the ideal excuse to get flirty, bold, and a little naughty – all while showing off your classy lingerie from Mentionables.

Get ready to play your part (and tease a little) with:

• Sexy costumes or lingerie as your main “outfit”.
• Props or accessories to bring your characters to life.
• A few roleplay prompts to get the story going (grab our Roleplay Character Card Deck for inspo).
• Music that matches the vibe – moody, playful, or downright naughty.
  
  

Bring your characters to life with sly smirks, mischievous gestures, and flirty improvisation throughout the night. Check out our Bedroom Magic and our Roleplay 101 blogs for more bedroom play tips and ideas.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing:Roleplay Collection – perfect for flirty fantasies; or mix and match any other of our tasteful lingerie pieces for a unique look.

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #5: Chocolate Fondue Date

They say chocolate is an aphrodisiac, and when it’s warm, melty, and shared between the two of you, it’s practically irresistible. This fall sex bucket list idea is all about indulgence – because nothing says foreplay like dipping strawberries, marshmallows, or even fingertips into rich chocolate and feeding them to each other. 

Messy? Maybe. Fun? Absolutely.

Sweeten the moment with:

• A pot of warm chocolate fondue (milk, dark, or even pumpkin spice chocolate if you’re feeling festive). Capture even more of the deliciousness of the season by adding this DIY pear whipped cream as an extra side – its fruity flavor pairs beautifully with chocolate and other dippable goodies. 
• Bite-sized treats like strawberries, bananas, graham crackers, or marshmallows.
• Napkins or wet wipes on hand for cleanup (or better yet, let each other do the cleaning).
• A cozy blanket or candlelit setting to make dessert feel extra decadent.
  
  

Play up the tease by blindfolding your partner and letting them guess each treat, or skip the snacks and see how creative you can get with chocolate-dipped kisses in some…ahem, strategic spots, if you catch our drift.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Eyelash Lace Underwire Balconette Bralette and matching Strappy High-Waisted Crotchless Panty in Cherry Lacquer – they’re as delectable as dessert, and just as hard to resist.

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #6: Bonfire & Hot Cider Night

Few things feel more “fall” than a crisp night, a crackling fire, and something warm in your mug. This sex bucket list idea turns a cozy bonfire into the perfect setup for flirty fun, because sparks by the fire have a way of turning into sparks between you.

Get the heat smoldering with:

• Steaming cups of hot apple cider, cocoa, or the ultimate autumn obsession, the PSL.
• A pile of soft blankets big enough for two.
• A playlist of moody fall tunes or acoustic favorites.
• Binoculars to gaze at stars.
• Our Mentionables exclusive Hot Seat game for playful questions and challenges that stoke the fire even higher, or our Let’s Reconnect cards for some deeper emotional connection.
  
  

Let the flicker of firelight set the mood as you trade sips, share secrets, and sneak kisses between rounds of the game. And if the fire’s burning low, you’ll already have the perfect excuse to pull each other closer.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Our Lace and Mesh Ruffle Bralette and coordinating Lace and Mesh Corset Waist Panty in Two-Toned Black glows as warmly as the firelight – simple and sultry, yet absolutely captivating.

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #7: Haunted House Thrills

Not much gets your adrenaline pumping quite like a haunted house – and this sex bucket list idea proves that a little fear can be seriously fun. With eerie sounds, creaking floors, and shadowy corners concealing terrifying characters waiting to jump scare you, you’ll have plenty of reasons to hold each other close (and maybe sneak in a few flirty ‘fear kisses’). 

Make your haunted house journey even more thrilling with:

• Tickets to the spookiest haunted house in town (bonus points for a corn maze or hayride add-on).
• A pact to stay glued to each other no matter what emerges from the shadows.
• Flirty dares for whoever screams first.
• Post-haunt treats like hot cider or caramel apples to sweeten things up after the scares.
  
  

Let the thrill of the night follow you home, because once the ghosts and ghouls are gone, all that adrenaline needs a new outlet. Keep the fun rolling with our Get-Lucky Scratch-Off game and see where the night takes you.

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Eyelash Lace Crotchless Garter Teddy in Two-Toned Black – dark, dramatic, and just daring enough to keep the spooky vibes going once you’re back home.

Fall Sex Bucket List Idea #8: Naughty Pumpkin Carving

Pumpkin carving doesn’t have to be innocent – make it flirty, fun, and a little bit scandalous this fall. This flirty fall sex bucket list idea transforms ordinary pumpkins into risqué creations, letting your creativity run wild while the cheeky competition heats up.

Get ready to get your carve (and giggles) on with these helpful tools and tips:

• A few pumpkins and carving tools ready for your adults-only creations.
• Our Positions Card Deck for inspiration (both for carving ideas and some fun for later). 
• A cozy setup with blankets, candles, or twinkle lights to keep things festive.
• Seasonal treats or warm drinks to nibble and sip while you carve.

To make this activity even more juicy, try challenging each other to see who can carve the most provocative design the fastest, or assign a sexy dare for each mistake made. The winner takes full control of the evening’s fun. 

Mentionables Lingerie Pairing: Eyelash Lace Underwire Lace Up Bustier + Lacy Strappy Thong  – because your pumpkin carving deserves an equally cheeky finish.

Your Sexy Autumn Awaits 

Fall might be filled with pumpkin patches and leaf piles, but the real fun happens when you add a little classy lingerie-fueled spice to your plans. Whether it’s cuddling through a scary movie marathon, toasting by a bonfire, or turning pumpkin carving into something cheeky, these fall sex bucket list ideas prove that autumn can be just as sexy as summer.

Our new Café Noir collection was designed for moments like these – sultry lace, moody hues, and silhouettes that warm even the chilliest autumn nights. Pick your favorites now – because your fall sex bucket list ideas deserve a cherry on top…and maybe a little whipped cream, too.

So, which adventure is calling your name first?