You’ve probably heard of the five love languages (words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, gifts, and quality time), but let’s take things a little closer to the skin. 

Did you know that your love language doesn’t just stop at communication? It can totally show up in your classy lingerie, too. Who knew? 

How you like to love (and be loved) often mirrors the way you like to feel in your lingerie – confident, cozy, touchable, thoughtful, or full-on treat-yourself energy. And lucky for you, Mentionables has a match for every lingerie love language.

So in honor of Love Day, let’s cover what are the different love languages through the lens of classy lingerie – and how to wear yours this Valentine’s Day.

Lingerie Love Language #1: Words of Affirmation (“Tell Me I’m Hot” Energy)

If you’re a words-of-affirmation girlie, we know you love all the compliments and appreciation. And for you, lingerie isn’t just something you wear – it’s something that makes you feel seen and beautiful. 

You gravitate toward classy lingerie that gives instant confidence, the kind that makes you catch your reflection and think, “okay… I look good!” Praise matters to you, whether it’s coming from your partner or yourself. Basically, if your lingerie isn’t hyping you up, it’s not doing its job.

So how does this translate into classy lingerie? Here’s how to wear it this Valentine’s Day:

• Lean into bold color, romantic lace, or a touch of sheer: Our Scalloped Lace Underwire Bustier paired with the matching thong panty delivers an instant confidence boost and a look made to turn heads.
• Put the spotlight on your favorite features: The Lacy Crossover Bralette is perfect for showing off the girls, while the High-Waist Lace-Up Crotchless Panty makes legs and curves the main event.
• Choose adjustable pieces that fit you: The Lacy Side Tie Panty lets you customize the fit (higher, lower, looser, or snugger) so your lingerie hugs you exactly how you like it.

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Take a moment in the mirror before the night begins. If your lingerie makes you smile, stand taller, or say “okay wow,” then you’ll know you picked the right set.

Lingerie Love Language #2: Quality Time (Slow, Cozy, Stay-In Kind of Love)

Quality time, gals? Say it with us: cancel all plans. This lingerie love language is about connection, presence, and slowing down. Nothing says “let’s linger” like classy lingerie that’s just as comfortable as it is flattering. 

You love slow mornings, long cuddles, and evenings where plans are optional – so your classy lingerie should feel like an invitation to stay in and savor the moment. 

Lingerie that feels good for hours, not just five minutes, is your best friend here. Soft fabrics, gentle stretch, and thoughtful details keep things cozy while still boosting your self-confidence.

So what does this look like in classy lingerie? Here’s how to wear it this Valentine’s Day:

• Prioritize soft, stay-on-all-night pieces: Our Satin Ruffle Bralette and High Waist Satin Flutter Shorts, or the Heart Lace & Mesh Babydoll – easy to lounge in, cuddle in, and never rush out of.
• Choose relaxed silhouettes that still feel romantic: The Scalloped Embroidered Satin Cami and shorts set or the Polka Dot Mesh Babydoll bring the vibes without sacrificing comfort, so you can stay present instead of adjusting straps all night.
• Look for adjustable details that let you settle in: Flexible fits (hello, Lacy Underwire Ruched Babydoll or Lacy Strappy Thong) let you customize the feel – because quality time is way better when nothing’s digging, pinching, or pulling focus.
  
  

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Make getting ready part of the moment. Choose your classy lingerie together, then layer it with something cozy like a silky robe or oversized cardigan – so the night flows easily from lounging to lingering without ever breaking the connection.

Lingerie Love Language #3: Physical Touch (All About That Skin-to-Skin Magic)

For our physical touch gals, nothing says “I love you” like getting close and skin that begs to be touched. You crave skin-to-skin moments, lingering hugs, and that can’t keep your hands off each other energy. You don’t just want to look good – you want to feel good… and make every hug, cuddle, and caress count. 

You’re drawn to classy lingerie that feels sensual against the skin and invites hands-on admiration. Think smooth fabrics, flexible fits, and pieces that make cuddling (and more) feel effortless and natural.

What exactly does this look like in classy lingerie? Here’s how to wear it this Valentine’s Day:

• Choose ultra-soft, touchable fabrics: Our silky Satin Cross-Back Romper or the combo of textures in the Eyelash Lace Bow High Waist Crotchless panty are perfect for comfort that still feels undeniably sexy to wear and to touch.
• Opt for flexible, barely-there fits: The Lacy Satin Bow Romper or Satin & Eyelash Lace Slip are lingerie pieces without a rigid structure that keep you close and comfortable, no matter how long the moment lasts.
• Highlight skin with subtle cutouts or lace details: Styles that tease just a little – like the Heart Lace & Mesh Crotchless Teddy or Heart Lace Pasties – encourage handsy exploration and appreciation without feeling overdone.

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Make touch part of the experience. Leave little hints (like a bow to untie or a playful peekaboo strap) so every glance and gesture invites closeness without trying too hard.

Lingerie Love Language #4: Acts of Service (Thoughtful, Intentional, Detail-Oriented)

For our Acts of Service ladies, love is all about doing and caring – so your lingerie should do the same. You want lingerie pieces that are practical, easy to wear, and make you feel confident without fuss.

This is classy lingerie that shows you care about yourself (and your partner) while keeping things effortless and chic. Think comfy, supportive, and thoughtful designs that still feel sexy – a little functional magic with a lot of feminine charm. 

Let your lingerie show up for you. 

So how does this come to life in classy lingerie? Here’s how to wear it this Valentine’s Day:

• Supportive, easy-to-wear bralettes: Pieces like the Lacy Satin Keyhole Bralette or Lacy Off-The-Shoulder Bralette offer comfort and gentle support, so you can focus on the moment, not adjusting straps.
• Flattering, fuss-free bottoms: The Lacy Crotchless Hipster Panty or the Lacy High Waist Crotchless Panty gives you curves in all the right places, with no hassle.
• One-piece wonders: The Lace & Mesh High Leg Crotchless Teddy or the Lacy Crotchless Polka Dot Teddy are easy to slip into and feel polished instantly – practical but flirty.

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Think “set it and forget it.” Lingerie with easy closures and adjustable details keeps everything comfortable so you can focus on enjoying the moment.

Lingerie Love Language #5: Receiving Gifts (The Big Reveal Lover)

And lastly, if gift giving is your love language, you believe romance is all about thoughtfulness. 

You love surprises, meaningful details, and that wow, you really thought of me feeling. For you, lingerie isn’t just something to put on – it’s a present, whether you’re giving it to someone special or treating yourself.

You’re drawn to classy lingerie that feels special and intentional. This includes lingerie with beautiful details, romantic silhouettes, and pieces that feel like they were chosen just for the occasion.

And what does this look like in classy lingerie? Here’s how to wear it this Valentine’s Day:

• Choose statement-making pieces: Romantic styles like an Lacy Underwire Charm Bralette with the High Waist Velvet Crotchless Garter Panty feel extra giftable and instantly special.
• Look for elevated details: Lace, bows, satin accents, and delicate trims, like in the Eyelash Lace Crotchless Lace Teddy, make lingerie feel less everyday and more “just for you.”
• Opt for complete, coordinated sets: Matching tops and bottoms, like our Lacy Underwire Corset and Lacy Cutout Thong, create that polished, wrapped-with-a-bow feeling that gift givers love.
• Lean into the unwrap factor: The Eyelash Lace Bow Bralette or the Velvet Bow Bralette, with special details like ties, buttons, or flowy skirts, adds a little anticipation – because half the fun is in the reveal.
  
  

MENTIONABLES PROTIP: Presentation matters. Even when you’re gifting lingerie to yourself, choose a piece that feels intentional and indulgent – the kind you’d be excited to unwrap. (Hint…any piece from our Valentine’s classy lingerie collection is made for gifting, or self-gifting) 

Bonus: You Can Have More Than One Lingerie Love Language

Once you understand what the different love languages are, it becomes easier (and more fun) to mix lingerie styles that match every version of you. Just like relationships, lingerie love languages can grow and change. You might crave cozy, stay-in pieces one day and something bold and gift-worthy the next – and that’s part of the fun.

Feel free to mix, match, and explore different styles depending on your mood, your moment, or your Valentine’s Day plans. And remember, love languages (including your lingerie one) can change over time, so your classy lingerie drawer should feel just as flexible, playful, and ever-evolving as you are.

Ready to Speak Your Classy Lingerie Love Language? 

Now that you know what are the different love languages and how they translate into classy lingerie, Valentine’s Day dressing can feel more intentional – and a lot more fun. No matter which lingerie love language you’re fluent in (or if you’re happily bilingual), Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to lean into what feels good right now. Think adjustable fits, mix-and-match sets, and styles that let you turn the dial from sweet to spicy whenever you want. 

If your lingerie drawer could use a little extra romance, the Mentionables Valentine’s Day classy lingerie collection is full of feel-good pieces made to celebrate every body and every mood. 

So – are you dressing for your love language this Valentine’s Day, or trying out a new one?