Lingerie myths have been floating around for way too long, and it’s time to set the record straight. Think lingerie is only for special occasions? Nope. Believe you have to be a certain size or shape to rock it? Absolutely not. 

Whether you’re a die-hard teddy lace lover or a comfy-and-cute matching set kinda girl, well-made classy lingerie is for everyone – and we’re here to prove it. Spoiler alert: You don’t need a special reason to slip into something that makes you feel amazing.

Get ready as we bust five of the biggest lingerie misconceptions and show you why feeling sexy and confident is never off-limits.

Myth #1: Lingerie Is for Special Occasions Only

Truth: Every day is a good day to feel sexy. 

Why save classy lingerie for honeymoons, anniversaries, birthdays, or date nights when you can wear it just because? Lingerie isn’t something you need a reason to wear – it is the reason.

Here’s why donning something lacy and luxurious should be part of your bedroom routine:

• Instant Confidence Boost –  A lace bralette or cheeky panties under your everyday outfit can make you feel powerful, sexy, and ready to take on the day – whether anyone else knows it or not.
• Reconnects You with Your Sensuality – Life is busy, and it’s easy to get stuck in to-do list mode. Incorporating lingerie into your routine more often can uplift your mood, ease stress, shift your mindset, and add a spark of excitement to your day. 
• Breaks the ‘Waiting’ Mindset – Life is short! Why wait for a big event to enjoy something that makes you feel beautiful and empowered? Waiting for a “rare occasion” to break out your favorite lingerie not only limits the joy you can experience day-to-day, but it also reinforces the idea that indulgence and self-love need to be earned or tied to external milestones. Guess what? They don’t.
• A Simple Act of Self-Care – Treating yourself to lingerie (and actually wearing it) is a small but powerful way to remind yourself that you deserve to feel pampered, comfortable, and confident.
• Surprises Your Partner (and Yourself) – If you have a partner, surprising them with everyday lingerie moments keeps things exciting. But even more importantly, it reminds you how effortlessly sexy you can feel daily. 

Classy lingerie isn’t just for special occasions – it’s for every occasion, including the one where you simply want to feel good. So go ahead, slip into something gorgeous… no excuse needed.

Myth #2: You Need To Be a Certain Body Type to Wear Lingerie

Truth: Sexy comes in every size.

It’s time to ditch the outdated “ideal body” myth once and for all. Lingerie isn’t reserved for a specific size or shape – anyone can rock it and look absolutely stunning. Confidence is what makes lingerie truly sexy, and that comes from embracing and celebrating your body, exactly as it is.

Here are a few tips to help you find lingerie that enhances your unique beauty:

• Find the Right Fit – A proper fit is the key to feeling amazing in lingerie. A well-fitted piece can accentuate your curves, highlight your favorite features, and make you feel like the bombshell you already are. 
• Experiment with Styles & Colors – Lingerie has endless styles, cuts, and shades. Try different designs to discover what makes you feel most confident and comfortable – whether it’s a sultry teddy, a delicate babydoll, or a bold, strappy bra and panty set.
• Embrace Your Unique Beauty – Everybody is lingerie-worthy. Finding pieces that make you feel sexy and radiant is all that matters.

PROTIP: For a full guide on finding the perfect size and styles for your body, check out our blog post and the Mentionables Lingerie Style Guide. If you’re searching for inclusive, confidence-boosting designs that embrace real bodies (yes, including plus-size lingerie), explore Mentionables’ collections – because sexy comes in every size.

Myth #3: Comfortable Lingerie Doesn’t Exist

Truth: You don’t have to choose between sexy and comfy.

You don’t have to suffer for the sake of sexy – comfortable lingerie does exist. Say goodbye to stiff, itchy lace, painful underwires, and straps that dig into your skin. The right fabrics and thoughtfully designed styles can feel just as incredible as they look, offering both comfort and sexy appeal. 

Here’s what to look for when choosing cozy, classy lingerie:

• Soft, Breathable Materials – Opt for materials like stretch lace, seamless mesh, or flexible satin that move with your body rather than against it.
• Customizable Features – Look for adjustable straps, wireless bras, and high-waisted cuts to achieve the perfect balance of comfort and confidence.  
• A Style That Suits You – Whether you prefer barely-there lace bralettes, full-coverage teddies, or flowy babydolls, trust us, there’s a style that flatters your shape without feeling restrictive.

PROTIP: Mentionables masterfully blend comfort and allure, designing lingerie that makes you feel both exquisite and effortlessly at ease – because confidence is the ultimate turn-on. We also prioritize thoughtful details, like soft fabrics and adjustable fits, ensuring that every piece is as practical as it is beautiful. It’s lingerie designed with you in mind.

Myth #4: Lingerie Is Just for Your Partner

Truth: Lingerie is for YOU first.

Sure, your partner might appreciate a sultry lace set, but at the end of the day, lingerie is about you. There’s an undeniable power in choosing and wearing pieces that make you feel beautiful, confident, and deeply connected to your femininity – whether or not anyone else gets a glimpse.

The best lingerie is the kind that makes you feel radiant. Prefer a soft bralette over a push-up? Go for it. Love a satin slip more than a corset and thong? Wear what makes you feel your best. Your style, comfort, and mood should always come first, and your lingerie choices should reflect what you truly desire. 

And if you're single? Even better – because you're dressing for the most important person in your life: you. Wearing lingerie for yourself nurtures your sensual side and serves as a beautiful reminder of your worth and beauty every time you put it on.

PROTIP:Remember,your classy lingerie preferences can naturally evolve over time, shifting with your changing tastes, and moods, or even with different phases of your cycle – check out our blog post here on how to choose lingerie pieces that align with each phase.

Myth #5: Lingerie Is Only for Young People

Truth: Sexy has no age limit.

Who decided that feeling confident and sexy had an expiration date? The idea that lingerie is only for twenty-somethings couldn’t be further from the truth. No matter your age, wearing gorgeous classy lingerie is about cherishing and accepting yourself, and feeling secure in your own skin.

Confidence isn’t tied to youth – it comes from within. As our bodies evolve through the years, from life experiences like childbirth, breastfeeding, and menopause, a little confidence boost can go a long way. Whether you’re 22 or 62, lingerie is a form of self-expression and self-love, and you deserve to feel sexy and beautiful at every stage of life. 

And let’s be real: style, sensuality, and self-assurance only deepen with age. In fact, many women find that as they get older, they have an even greater appreciation for lingerie. They’re less concerned with trends or what others think and more focused on what they love to wear. Lingerie becomes less about impressing someone else and more about personal confidence, comfort, and joy.

So if you’ve ever hesitated to treat yourself to something lacy because of your age – forget that lie. Sexy is timeless.

Wear Lingerie That Makes You Feel Best

At the end of the day, lingerie isn’t about rules – it’s about what makes you feel first-class. 

Whether it’s a delicate lace bralette, a slinky bodysuit, or a cozy satin set, the best piece is the one that makes you feel like your most glorious, confident self. Forget the myths, embrace what makes you feel amazing, and wear lingerie your way. 

Ready to find styles that truly fit and flatter? Explore Mentionables’ inclusive collection today and discover lingerie that highlights you.

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